Sunday, March 12, 2006

Morning, Noon and Night...

I find it interesting that my ideal of the perfect sexual experience has changed dramatically over the years. In my early twenties, I was into the whole seduce-me-with-a-lobster-and-champagne-dinner scene. I wanted romance, in the most flowery, soap opera-type way. I wanted to be swept up in the arms of a hunk and carried off to a rose pedal-covered bed.

In my late twenties, I discovered the erotic glory of the “quickie.” Wow. Who knew being hauled up against the hard chest of a hunky man, kissed hard and demanding, then bent over a sofa could be so… well, exciting?

Now in my thirties, I find the most unexpected things turn me on. Flowers and a romantic dinner. Snuggling in front of a fire with a good bottle of wine. Driving fast, skydiving, riding a roller coaster… yeah, all these things get my blood pumping.

I no longer have sexual stigmas. I have no problem with making love morning, noon or night. In fact, I believe whenever the mood strikes is the time for love…

So… my questions for you are: 1) what puts you in the mood? And 2) are you more or less inhibited now than you were in your earlier (aka glory) days?

I look forward to hearing from you. Oh, and here’s a little incentive to put some thought into your answers.

First… the most creative response will receive a $25 Victoria’s Secret Gift Card and a free download of my latest LSB release, Simon’s Wicked Web.

Second… I’ll pick 3 random blog answers to win a free download of Simon’s Wicked Web.

Okay… blog!

Ava (loving the SEX blog!)

13 Comments:

Blogger Blondie said...

1) what puts you in the mood? Hmmm.. these days it would just be any moment that does not involve a textbook or my kids fighting over the gamecube

And 2) are you more or less inhibited now than you were in your earlier (aka glory) days?
LOL... I would say more adventurous, but more inhibited....traveling with kids and ended any thoughts of joining the mile high club.. I just can't see explaining to my daughter what mommy is doing so long in the bathroom.

10:50 PM  
Blogger Jessica said...

in the mood? my hubby kissing the back of my neck.

more or less inhibited? i would say more adventurous, open to new things

11:12 PM  
Blogger Shara Lanel said...

Great topic, Ava! Personally I get in the mood when my hubby gives me a nice slow backrub to ease all my tension away...and create a new ache elsewhere. *g*

I guess I'm less inhibited in some ways--more trust involved, less self-conscious. But sometimes I'm just less energetic or interested with all the little stresses of daily life.

Shara
www.sharalanel.com

11:26 PM  
Blogger blackroze37 -tami said...

lol ive become a nudist, men used to have to pry the clothes off me with a crowbar and now men r hollering, put on some damn clothes and open the door , its cold out here.. {not just guys ive had sex wiht either} i just know im goint o forget to put on clothes and open door to gas man/ power man/ lost person, and be standing there , all 5'3 of me of my over weight , strectchmarked, tattoos, with upside down T on my tummy from surgerys .

MOOD; my neck and well sounds weird but touching without exactly rubbing, him to stroke whole body but never really make contact , breeze hand over my body ,, ,,sometimes less is more, i guess , tender and time consuming sex or bathroom counter in middle of night and be done before any1 is/was aware of anyhting might have gone on.......
im more try anything now, for fun and stuff i didnt know was ok for sex, but really there is no , not ok for sex i know now, BWG ..i always know it takes 2 to actaully have fun in bed and not 1 and me frozen ,lol

2:14 AM  
Blogger blackroze37 -tami said...

yikes sorry for such long post,meant ot break it up

2:16 AM  
Blogger KimW said...

hmmm creativity...not one of my strong points. Mood - reading a juicy story, sitting on the couch with hubby, having a nice dinner out or a few strawberry margaritas. I'm much more open today and more adventurous. I've found that PJ's are much better for lounging in rather than sleeping in and panties are better used as slingshots. haha!

6:56 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am far less inhibited now then when I was younger. It's pretty easy to be so when you know that the man you are with finds both your mind and body sexy. Heck, if he doesn't mind the stretchmarks, why should I? Some of the most sexy encounters are when the kids are in bed and we relax in the shower or tub together. But sexy can start off as repeatedly running his hands through my hair and gently stroking his fingers down my neck and back. Add a warm, gentle and lingering kiss and...hmmmm. Now, where was I?

Little Lamb Lost

8:40 AM  
Blogger snowflake said...

1) *sigh* Waking up to kisses and nibbles on the sensitive parts of my body, reading a well-written erotic romance, a sexily growled "good morning", him running a hand up my thigh while he's driving, cuddling in the backrow of a dark and largely empty movie theatre while a romantic date movie is playing, his light, seemingly accidental caresses while strolling in the park, the strains of slow and sensual music, ballroom dancing, getting in the shower together... and many more.

2) You are aware the risk inherent in your question? Reviving society's long-stewing suspicions regarding erotic romance author's non desirable influence on society including possible charges and indictment in a court of law? What can I say, reading erotic romance has corrupted me. LOL I've shed quite a bit of inhibitions and prejudices about sex and adult toys. I love lingerie that make me feel like a beautiful seductress and just the thought of getting the panties ABC (a bit chewed) and removing them from my body for my man keeps me wet in all the right places. *w*

10:37 AM  
Anonymous Cherie said...

1) What puts me in the mood? Sitting in a hot tub or jaccuzzi together. Showering together and soaping each other's bodies. Hubbies gentle caresses and erotic massages.

2)More or less inhibited? I think with any relationship you become less inhibited the longer you are together. Now that we have kids there are some things we can't do that we used to such as having sex at all times of the day or in different places of the house. That is why it is good for us to get away once in awhile just the two of us. Then we can have prime rib type sex rather than the fast food hamburger type sex we have been reduced to having so often now that we are parents.

11:02 AM  
Blogger robynl said...

The mood enhancers for me are: when reading a sexy part in a book, watching a 'love scene' in a movie with hubby, him reaching over and squeezing my hand, him grabbing my hand and sucking my finger when I pop a candy into his mouth while he is driving, going for a drive to the country and putting the van seats back and laying there looking at the stars and talking, going for a drive in the rain with the wipers sloshing back and forth and the rain running down in rivulets on the window pane-I love it and find it sexy.

I am less inhibited the more we get to know each other and the more we know about each other; also with no one else around except puppy wuppy I feel more free to dress in fewer clothes. Also, at night I sleep in a big T-shirt with the sleeves cut out b/c I'm always overly hot and this can be for easy access for the hubby also.

1:56 PM  
Anonymous R. Marie said...

Looking into those beautiful blue eyes and seeing deeper than anyone else can, I get a glimpse of my lover's soul; it tells me I am his and I know he is mine. This is my mood enhancer as I like to call it. We are there for each other and no one else matters at that very minute. I get somewhat of a stir deep within when I see him holding one of the grandchildren and playing with them- here is a continuation of life.
Ordering a pizza and sharing it together while watching TV or a movie can put me in the l'amour mood.

Less inhibited comes from not having children running around the house, not having to worry about getting pregnant, knowing that each of us is true to the other, and knowing that I want to grow old with him.

3:48 PM  
Blogger Rae Morgan said...

Hmm, in the mood? I have to add my two cents worth for the back rub.

Inhibited? Less. Kid is away at college. Parents are in assisted living now and not downstairs and down the hall. Having your parents live with you is more of a downer than kids, trust me.

Rae

5:52 PM  
Blogger Pamk said...

what puts me in the mood is cuddling with my hubby, a good erotic book that makes you go hum wonder if hubby will mind doing that. lol
more adventureous hell yes now that I'm approaching the big 40 if hubby suggests something usually he gets the okay and sometimes lately it me bringing it up.

6:31 PM  

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