Friday, April 21, 2006

What is Sexy?


Sexy is so subjective and personal, isn't it? You can ask ten different men what they find sexy in a woman and get ten different answers: Eyes, legs, laugh, walk, hair color, scent, and on and on. The same goes for what a woman finds sexy in a man.

What do I find sexy? Well, what really gets my motor running is a man who is strong but gentle. The sight of a man in the kitchen, cooking or doing dishes, is really sexy to me. A man pushing a stroller or holding a baby will do it as well.

I love pictures like this one, which I got here. Had to post that link just so I don't get into trouble ;)

I like sweet men. I'm so finished with the bad boys. What is sexy to me is an honest, sweet, genuine, reliable man. One that I can depend on. One that I can be my spazzy, goofy self with.

What about you? Tell me what you find sexy in partner in comments and I will do a random drawing for my book Repo Chick Blues :)

16 Comments:

Blogger LISA WILLIAMS said...

I totallly agree with you. A considerate, gentle, kind and caring man is sexy to me. One with a positive attitude and a sense of humour.

10:48 AM  
Blogger Shuck Ying said...

A buffed body is sexy but there has to be something more than just a body...preferably intelligence.

11:02 AM  
Anonymous Cherie said...

I agree as well. My husband used to be a geek in high school and so he does not understand why I think he is so handsome, considerate, gentle and loving. I think I am very very blessed to have him in my life. Pictures of guys with babies in their arms melt me too. I remember when our son was an infant. He would feed him and then the baby would fall asleep afterwards on his chest. Sometimes my husband would also fall asleep. Many was the time I had to get the camera and take a picture of such a touching sight.

11:03 AM  
Blogger Deborah Chan said...

I think it's sexy if a guy has confidence. Also it's sexy if he is willing to cook and clean up for his partner. :)

11:14 AM  
Blogger Trace said...

Lisa, absolutely a sense of humour. Very important!

Shuck Ying, I like a smart guy, too. It's one of my biggies.

Cherie, oh man. I'd be so weak in the knees seeing a man with a baby asleep on his chest. *Swoon*

Deborah, conifidence is a good thing for sure. You don't want a girly man!

11:22 AM  
Blogger Meljprincess said...

I think watching a guy shave is sexy.

I also think a guy with a big... neck, big shoulders and long arms is sexy. *g*

YES! Intelligence is extremely sexy. If I'm having an intelligent conversation with a guy, we're attracted to each other, and we have stuff in common?...we're gonna bump uglies. lol!!

12:45 PM  
Blogger Rae Morgan said...

I like both -- and I like them all rolled into one man. Not asking for much, am I? LOL

Oh and Tracy, congrats on the success of Repo Chick Blues, loved it as a sub and am thrilled it is doing so well.

Rae

1:19 PM  
Blogger Jennifer Y. said...

Kindness, considerate of others, and a good sense of humor are all sexy.

1:53 PM  
Blogger snowflake said...

A man who loves me for what I am (and not what he hopes I will become), is good to me and with children. A man who's intelligent but not conceited. A man who's good with his hands and helps out with household chores.

2:11 PM  
Blogger Estella said...

A man who accepts me the way I am, is sexy to me.

3:07 PM  
Blogger Tamara said...

Kindness is definitely a winner with me.

3:14 PM  
Blogger robynl said...

Good answers everyone. I find a man sexy when he is working around the yard doing things such as hammering, shoveling dirt-labor tasks. Sexy is also a sense of humor, playfulness such as light teasing, etc.
I love a man that loves to eat when I cook and has a good appetite-that is sexy.

4:07 PM  
Blogger Trace said...

Mel, watching a guy shave is sexy!

Rae, thank you :)

Jennifer, considerate of others is a biggie for me as well.

Jennybrat and Estella, a man who loves me for what I am is a must. Absolutely.

Tamara, definitely kindness. That's what I'm looking for first and foremost, along with a sense of humour.

Robynl, a man working in the yard is a lovely sight to behold *grin*

4:24 PM  
Blogger Amie Stuart said...

I think sexy is the ability to laugh at yourself =) Great post doll!

6:34 PM  
Blogger Trace said...

Thanks Cece! *SMOOCH*

9:13 PM  
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