Sunday, January 29, 2006

What Women Want . . .

. . . to hear in bed.

According to, women are verbal creatures at heart (and we all could have told you that!).

They give several suggestions for men to verbalize what's going on, how the woman is making him feel, during lovemaking.

What do you like to hear from your man? (Or what would you like to hear that he doesn't say?)

And, is it the same for men? Or are our gasps and moans enough?


Blogger Meljprincess said...

I wanna hear everything! Gasps, moans, screams, loving words whispered into my ears and mouth, and the biggie...I'M GONNA COME!

11:04 AM  
Blogger Michelle said...

Morning Meljprincess,

I think I'd have to agree with your response. And, yep the biggie is verrrrrrrrry important!


11:10 AM  
Blogger LSB Author, Darragha Foster said...

I asked DH to sing the 'Star Spangled Banner' to me once in mid-schtupp...does that count? He put a pretty big finish on that final stanza....and the home of the braaaavvvveeeee

12:02 PM  
Blogger Dee said...

I'm reminded of that old joke, what're the worst four words a girl can say to a guy during sex? "Is it in yet?"

I like dirty talk (ducking head, looking around to see if anyone is listening), as well as sweet words of love. Lots of those.

DH says he doesn't care if I say anything. Moaning is good, he says. But really, I think his mind's on what's happening between us rather than what I'm saying.


2:34 PM  
Blogger Mahaira said...

Tender words and naughty promises in your ear while making love!! What can beat that!!

I uaually ask him how he feels if gets too quiet during.... his moans and groans are equally satisfying.

I don't think men are verbal creatures. They are visual creatures and gasps and groans are enough for them.


2:39 PM  
Blogger Trista Ann Michaels said...

My dh doesn't talk a whole lot during sex, although sometimes he'll surprise me. When I said something about it, he looked at me funny and said, "Baby, I can't think well enough to string two words together, other than Oh, yeah and fuck. You want me to concentrate on having an actual conversation??" LOL.

I thought his comment was kind of funny as well as flattering. Nice to know I make him speachless...:)


3:37 PM  
Blogger Vanessa Hart said...

I love metaphoric talk. *LOL* During the heat of passion, sex has been compared to a multitude of things, from a boring drill bit to a docking lunar module. **Blush** Yep, I've written scenes that way, too.


4:29 PM  
Anonymous Rae Morgan said...

I like moans, groans, and a "fuck yeah!" when he comes. Then I want him to tell me I am the best. Which of course, I am. LOL

Rae Morgan

6:50 PM  
Blogger Sherrill Quinn said...

Well, what everyone has said has been my impression, too. If the guy is lucid enough to be able to talk coherently, we ain't doin' somethin' right! LOL

8:27 PM  

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